Friendfluence (your personal change agent)

Surround yourself with people you want to be and it's far less taxing to do what you should be doing (quote from an article).

Want to change? Join a group where change is either encouraged or what/who you want to change into is available in that group. You do become the groups you associate with most frequently. Want to be healthy, hang around health freaks and see how you change.

Who are you hanging out with?

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The Dream Jacket

New Zealand was cold but he knew just what he needed to keep him warm . . . and to bring him closer to realizing his dream. A leather jacket. He may have told me how and where he got the jacket but I can't remember. All I knew he wore it a lot while studying in New Zealand where he dreamt of wearing it when he rode his big bike. His jacket was part of his dream - to study overseas, to ride big bikes, to be successful - and he treasured it. He eventually returned home and as the years passed, put on weight and no longer could wear the jacket. Furthermore it was too hot and heavy for the humid Malaysian weather but he kept it. A treasure. A memento. A link to a special time in history. But the day came when, out of his generous heart and love for his brother, he gifted the jacket to his brother who was going to Melbourne for a much needed rest. The jacket was received with joy and it served the brother well by keeping him warm and more than that, my continuing its role as memory ...

Am I A Beggar, Begging?

I believe there are people out there who want to help and are able to help, so I share needs, both personal and church/ministry related. I also believe what James said in his letter, "You do not have because you do not ASK." So it was a surprise to me to be (recently) labelled a beggar and to have my sharing of needs and requesting for assistance and donations described as begging. My initial response was, "What? Me a beggar, begging? I began to wonder when did asking become begging and is there a difference between asking and begging. So I turned to Google and typed in 'difference between asking and begging', and lo, to my surprise, it was an often asked question! The articles, forums and comments listed were helpful and most importantly, eye opening, especially the dictionary definitions. It says that if I ask someone or ask for something earnestly and/or humbly, thats begging. Then I have been begging (oh no!). It also says that if I ask especially f...

Catastrophy I Thought (Again)

What is catastrophic thinking? Catastrophic thinking is when a person imagines scenarios in his or her head ( this article tells you how to use that to reduce your anxiety) that are way more intense or graphic than what can really be expected. For example, if someone’s brother or sister is late to meet for lunch, the anxious person may begin to frantically worry that his or her sibling has been in a terrible car crash and is now severely injured or dead. Sensations, thoughts, and emotions are seen as signs of immediate physical or psychological catastrophe. a kind of anxiety disorder defined in Psychology Today as "ruminating about irrational worst-case outcomes" . anxiety disorders. They identify 6 essential ingredients of a cycle that fuels them: Catastrophic Beliefs (“I’m having a heart attack, I’m dying,”) triggered by a Precipitating Event (heart palpitations) results in both Anxiety Symptoms (shortness ...

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