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28 April 2017

SEEN KUCHING?

A number of University students here who hail from beyond Kuching have never ventured out further than Kota Samarahan and Kuching South. Time to organise trips (free?) for these non-Kuchingnites so that they can see, know and enjoy the sights and sounds of beautiful Kuching and beyond. Anybody got ideas or game to play host and tour guide?

PORK BURGERS

Several years ago I used to make pork patties, thick and juicy, and stick them in small buns (the ones that come six in a pack). Everyone loved them. I kept commenting, "Since no one is doing this, I should open a stall and sell pork burgers!" I never did. Others did. Now pork burger stalls are every where. Moral of story - act on an idea quickly or it is just fanciful dreaming.

THANK GOD FOR OXYTOCIN

According to researchers at Duke University, oxytocin or the “love hormone,” not only bonds lovers, and mother to child, but can increase religious feelings as well.  Oxytocin appears to be part of the way our bodies support spiritual beliefs. But studies have also shown that those who self-identify as religious are actually more sexually driven. Now we know . . . Even so Oxytocin does seem to affect how we perceive the world and what we believe. 

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